Stop crying at your fails. Learn from it. Remember, don’t let yourself fall on the same hole twice
Humans are able to live a good life is not a person who is always confined to the past. For him, the day yesterday is a lesson so that any sadness that has occurred to strengthen his heart in the future. Whatever he does, he always principled that has passed is past. Focus his thoughts on tomorrow. When you can not let go of the past, the future will never come.
Learning from experience is a must. Experience is a valuable teacher. That phrase we often hear even we often also spoken. It feels the sentence is not excessive because the experience is a major contribution to the success and happiness.
No matter whether good or bad experience, which certainly can be taken both in value. Whatever happens in life is a lesson and bring goodness to man. The more problems, the more our knowledge in overcoming various problems. The experience not only gives knowledge but also as a personal maturation process. The more experienced things, a person will be more regular and resistant when faced with things that are not expected.
One thing that is equally important is that we do not learn enough from our experience but also can learn from the experience of friends, parents and of the events that happen to people we just met. Do not limit yourself to just learn from the experience themselves. There is no harm if we exchange information and share experiences.
Likewise, we can also learn from our mistakes. No one is really free from errors. Each person must have done something wrong, no matter how small it is. People who have fallen is not a bad person and do not have the right to have slipped to successful because they can learn to rise.
In this regard, JSMurrel said that the amount of time you spend in an effort to achieve success is not an important thing that you should consider. In contrast, an important consideration is that you should think of intelligence as you are doing just that, and more importantly is what you get lessons from the mistakes that you have done.
People who fell a second time on the same hole are the ones who do not think, careless, not opinionated, no consideration and loses his existence. Question yourself, why you can fall? what should you do to bounce? And how that mistake does not happen again in the future? That the characteristics of people who have a strong personality, whose life is increasing.[]