Everyone will live in peace by forgiving others. Be an extraordinary person who always forgives others’ mistakes even though it is very painful when others hurt us. But keep an avenge inside our heart is not the best choice for you and for others. You will not only feel pain in your heart but you will feel pain physically if you don’t forgive others. Forgive people who hurt you so that your life will be better.
Revenge our pain to others won’t give us kindness because it will cause bad behaviors for example like to look for other’s mistakes that can fail others. This kind of person will have no serenity in his or her mind and heart, his or her heart will full of hatred and anger and it is possible for him or her to do something criminal to revenge his or her hatred. He or she will do many efforts in order to make people who have ever hurt him or her feel more pain than pain that he or she has ever felt. This is called heart ache. We need to know that emotional and anger influence most to our physical condition, especially for heart health. Don’t kill yourself because you keep your avenge deep inside.
Life cannot be sterile from pain. Sometime, there is a person who hurt us and sometime person who hurts us is the closest person for us, someone who has become part of our life. It is better for us to learn its lesson and don’t let avenge takes control of your life.
Apologize and forgive are the best way. But, for some people, it is not easy to do it except people who are willing to apologize and forgive others because their heart is fulfilled by love to others. When we have to apologize and admit our mistakes, we often controlled by fear, shy and proud. It seems like there is a battle in our heart, do we have to apologize or not. If you experience that kind of situation, don’t let yourself fulfilled by worry, take away your ego and make a decision to admit your mistakes. By doing it, your heart will feel better.
When you are too proud to forgive others, your heart will find no peace and serenity. Because of that, make apologize and forgive others as your habit so that you will be healthy inside and outside. Maybe others don’t hurt you but you hurt your own self by having a sensitive behavior and you have a misunderstanding about others’ behavior to you. Learn about the source of the problem first. Don’t let your behavior make you lose your best friends and family. Do 1000 friends are better than one enemy?
Apologize and forgive others will create a harmonious life. Forgive others is good for someone who has hurt by others. People will be free from past bind by forgiving others. We won’ be focus on our will to revenge others but we have to forgive others and forget about others’ mistakes and we consider that it has never happened. Pain in our heart will fade away when we decide to forgive others. Because of that, we won’t waste our time by forgiving others because when we are angry, we will find some difficulties in focusing on something and we can do anything. Forgive others so that you will feel better. []